CEREMONIES
This is the Fun Part…
Where the Magic (and the Marriage) Begin
Let’s Explore The Ceremony Style That’s Right for You!
With Bonnie as your Wedding Officiant, your ceremony will never feel generic or cookie-cutter, boring, or lack heart. No matter how simple or elaborate the format, your ceremony will be thoughtfully prepared so it feels authentic, meaningful…and will be infused with love.
Whether you’re envisioning a spiritual, religious, or secular ceremony – the choice is entirely yours.
The vibe of your ceremony can be formal and poetic, romantic and heartfelt, light and joyful—or a beautiful blend that stirs all the right emotions. Together, we will determine the style that feels most authentic to you.
Most couples prefer to keep the final script a surprise for their wedding day once the ceremony outline is finalized; however, if you would prefer to review it in advance, that option is always available.
Regarding Ceremony Fees…
Pricing is often the first question couples have, therefore, customary fees are listed within each category. Several factors can affect your final ceremony fee, such as location, level of customization, duration and complexity of your ceremony, travel, and additional services. We’ll collaborate to create the option that best fits your personalities, your celebration, and your budget.
ROMANTIC FUN FACT: 
The first on-screen kiss in film history happened in 1896, and it caused quite a scandal. Weddings by Bonnie expects your kiss to be equally iconic (but with much less controversy – unless of course, that’s what you’re going for)!
LEGAL SIGNING
SIMPLY SAY “I DO”!
Raleigh $150 / Durham $175 / Chapel Hill $200
A simple and meaningful way to make your marriage official—without the fuss. This option is perfect for couples who:
What’s included:
ELOPEMENTS & MICRO WEDDINGS
From Just the Two of You, to a Gathered Few
(up to 25 guests)
In the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill Area
CAROLINA CLASSIC CEREMONY
$375
This 15-minute ceremony is perfect for elopements or micro weddings with just a handful of guests. The script is thoughtfully written to celebrate your love with warmth, heart, and connection—without the extra frills. Every word and moment is designed to feel personal, loving, and meaningful.
You can look forward to all the classic elements: guest appreciation; a prayer (if requested); reflection of your journey together; guiding words of marriage; vows and ring exchange; romantic closing statements right before you are pronounced “married”!
Your ceremony will be intimate, heartfelt, and never rushed just because it’s the two (or a few) of you.
CAROLINA CUSTOM CEREMONY
For Elopements & Micro Weddings
$450
This option is ideal for couples who love everything included above in the Carolina Classic Ceremony, but prefer a more personalized experience.
This 20 – 25 minute heartfelt ceremony is a reminder of the many reasons you love one another, realizing how your love has evolved, and led you to the intimate moments being celebrated on your wedding day. You’ll receive guidance on personal vows, inspirational readings, optional unity traditions, and thoughtful touches that reflect your personalities, values, and connection—making your ceremony memorable and truly one-of-a-kind.
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FULL WEDDING CELEBRATIONS
SOUTHERN ELEGANCE CEREMONY
(Includes A Few Frills)
In the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill Area
$475
Perfect for larger gatherings, this timeless ceremony is ideal for couples who prefer a traditional yet modern format that creates a heartfelt experience for everyone in attendance. While simple in structure, your ceremony will include all the essential elements along with several personal touches based on the details you share.
Typically lasting 20–25 minutes, the ceremony is custom crafted from processional to recessional. You will be presented with thoughtful options for each segment of the script, including sample readings, your choice of vows, and a few basic unity traditions. Your journey as a couple will be reflected throughout, making the ceremony deeply personal and meaningful.
This celebration focuses on the unconditional love you share and warmly includes your family and friends, creating a meaningful, memorable, and fully inclusive experience.
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THE NORTH CAROLINA SIGNATURE CEREMONY
In the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill Area
$550
Celebrate your love by honoring timeless traditions, while embracing meaningful, contemporary elements that reflect your unique journey, the bonds of family, and unity.
This 30-minute Signature Ceremony features a carefully curated blend of classic structure and bespoke touches, including a romantic reflection of your love story. Together, we will revisit how you met, the excitement of your first date, the adventures you’ve shared, and above all…the many reasons you fell deeply in love and chose to marry.
You will be presented with thoughtful ideas for honoring parents, grandparents, cherished guests, and beloved family members no longer with us. Meaningful readings, unity traditions, cultural or faith-based elements, and guest participation can all be seamlessly woven into your ceremony. Light, creative moments may also be included to ease nerves and invite warm connection.
There is virtually no limit to the meaningful details that can be incorporated. Every element is intentionally designed to create an emotional, engaging experience—one that moves your guests and beautifully reflects the unconditional love you share. Your ceremony will truly be, one of a kind.
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VOW RENEWAL CEREMONIES
In the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill Area
Honoring The Journey, Renewing The Promise
$400
A Customized Vow Renewal Ceremony is a beautiful way to celebrate the love that has grown over time—and the family that has grown along with it.
Whether you’re marking a milestone anniversary or simply reaffirming your commitment, this ceremony honors your shared journey while embracing the people who’ve been part of it.
Together, we’ll create a personalized celebration that may include updated vows, meaningful readings, new (or symbolic) ring exchange, and special moments that involve your children, grandchildren, or close loved ones.
This ceremony also includes a decorative certificate to memorialize your Vow Renewal celebration.
It’s more than just a renewal—it’s a tribute to the life, love, and legacy you’ve built together. Because your “forever” deserves to be celebrated again!
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WHAT TO EXPECT & WHAT’S INCLUDED
Regardless of which ceremony option is the best fit for you, every couple will receive the same “above and beyond” level of care and service, which includes:
Initial Consultation – Lets Connect
Marriage License Made Simple
Crafting the Perfect Ceremony
Classic vs Custom – What is the Difference?
Custom Ceremonies typically run 30 minutes, giving space to tell your story and savor every special moment.
ADDITIONAL FEES
Rehearsal fees ($100 – $150) are not included in the above ceremony prices.
Microphone & Blue Tooth Speaker: $40
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UNITY TRADITIONS AND RITUALS
Unity traditions and rituals are meaningful elements that symbolize the joining of two lives, families, and futures. These special moments add depth and personal expression to your ceremony, reflecting your values, heritage, or shared journey. Regardless of the unity tradition you choose (or we create!), this will serve as a powerful visual representation of your commitment. Your unity ritual can also include children, parents, or other loved ones—making your ceremony even more inclusive and memorable.
Need ideas? Bonnie has created and performed countless heartfelt, fun, and delightfully “off-the-wall” unity rituals throughout her career.. From meaningful cultural traditions to playful, one-of-a-kind moments, she’s here to help you craft something that feels truly you. To Name Just a Few…
Officiant Coaching, Script Writing & Ceremony Preparation
Asked to Officiate a Wedding?
Weddings by Bonnie Can Help!
($350)
Being invited to officiate a loved one’s ceremony is an incredible honor. As exciting as it is, it can also feel a bit overwhelming when you are unsure of where to start. After all, this is a huge responsibility!
Weddings by Bonnie, your Raleigh based Wedding Officiant, offers guidance and support to help you feel confident, prepared, and fully “wedding-ready.” Together, we’ll ensure you are equipped to deliver a meaningful, heartfelt ceremony the couple (and their guests), will never forget.
What’s Included:
Custom Script Creation
A beautifully written, personalized ceremony script that reflects the couple’s love story and tone—typically 20 minutes in length.
One-on-One Coaching
Approximately four hours of instruction and support via phone and email.
Ceremony Structure & Flow
Learn the key elements of a well-paced ceremony, from opening announcements to the pronouncement and recessional.
Fact Gathering Guidance
Tips for gathering meaningful details from the couple to personalize the ceremony.
Presentation & Delivery Tips
Techniques for confident public speaking, pacing, and connecting with the couple and guests.
Wedding Day Logistics
Practical advice on rehearsals, timing, marriage license signing, communicating with fellow vendors, conducting yourself at the altar, most appropriate attire, and more.
Final Review & Read-Through
A final session to walk through the script, fine-tune your delivery, and ensure you’re comfortable for the honorable role as a Wedding Officiant.
The final result?
A beautifully written, heartfelt ceremony that you’ll feel confident and proud to present.
Let’s Get You Ready For The Altar!